Life after a divorce is no doubt very different. Some people have some extreme difficulties dealing with their lives after a divorce. The first holiday without your children, the first night they are not sleeping in your house , and the first time they go away with your spouse without you are all examples of tremendous emotionally straining issues that may manifest themselves subsequent to the finalization of a divorce.
There will no doubt be many ups and downs after a divorce. The key is being prepared to deal with the reality of your post-divorce life. Some people are prepared to handle their post divorced lives simply as a result of the fact that their married life was so miserable. However, many people are not well equipped to handle same. For those people it may make sense to contact a therapist or divorce coach to help you deal with the multitude of emotional issues that arise post-divorce.
It is not uncommon for people who have recently gone through divorce to go through a period of grieving. Many people cannot imagine picturing themselves divorced and they view themselves as somehow being a failure as the result of the fact that they are now divorced. It is important to not let your divorce define who you are. Good people get divorced every day.
There is no question that divorce is not easy. The key is having a strategy in place to help you deal with any post-divorce drama that you may experience.
The divorce lawyers at Villani and DeLuca are sensitive and understand the emotional impact such a life changing event as a divorce can have on your life and your family. Should you have any questions that you wish to have answered whether they be emotional or financial as it relates to your life after the divorce please feel free to contact the attorneys at Villani and DeLuca. The family law attorneys at the firm will be happy to discuss any issues that you would like pertaining to divorce.