Testifying in court can be a nerve-wracking experience, especially when you are directly involved in the case. Your fears may be intensified if this is your first time in court, or you have trouble speaking in public.
While nobody truly wins in a divorce, cases that go to trial must be ruled in favor of one party over another. It's hard to know how a judge will rule in any particular case, but it's fair to say that there are less "absolutes" in a divorce litigation compared to a criminal trial.
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